Here are a few tips and suggestions I have to hopefully prevent boredom from even becoming a factor. Part of the reason kids get so bored in the summer is because there is no apparent structure to their day. They are used to being in school where they were accustomed to plans and routines. Half the battle in fighting boredom is providing a general and loose schedule for the children, especially younger ones. For example, this summer I am going to make sure to do the following things every day with my kids, preferably around the same time each day. Of course we will also keep flexibility and spontaneity in mind:
I also want to plan a few big outings as well. We will probably schedule these at the beginning of summer and then make a paper chain to countdown to them.
Finally, at the beginning of summer break, and with the help of your children, brainstorm a list of fun activities for them to do. Involving them in this step is critical because it will help give them ownership of their supposed boredom and it will teach them how to solve their own problems, an essential life skill to have. They will soon realize “boredom is a state of mind,” something my mother continually reminded me when I was younger.
When your child proclaims their boredom, simply direct them to choose an item from their ready made list. To add a little variety to life they can even write their activities on slips of paper and then randomly choose an item from a container. You could also have the activities broken down into a few different sections, a section for things they can do on their own at home, a section for places to go as a family and a section for things to do at home with help.
Even though Keri still has a few weeks left of school, we have already started talking about some things she would like to do:
If you have any suggestions on how to beat summertime boredom, please share your ideas. I am sure many of us would benefit from your thoughts on the matter
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This is AWESOME! Thanks for posting!!
I love the ides of structure and advanced planning. Having the kids help brainstorm the activities is a great idea.
I need to make a list and post it right on the fridge so I can go straight too it when the kids are driving me and each other crazy.
My mom always made a list of 100 things we could do and if we ever claimed to be bored, she’d say, “Do something on the list.” And if we were still bored, the last item said, “Take a nap,” and she’d enforce it.
I need a list of things they can do that don’t involve me and don’t involve hitting, whacking, slapping, or shoving each other — for the older boys, of course!
I love your ideas!
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